Throughout the course of our time here in Los Angeles, we've spent the time comparing to our lives back at home in Colorado, absorbing the culture, and trying to get a feel for what it really feels like to live here. Some of the things we've seen, heard, or unfortunately smelled may stand out but don't fit squarely into a post of their own. So we're collecting some of our random observations here...
#1 - The skyline of San Pedro is filled with AT-ATs, or brachiosauruses.
#2 - Bikers (of the motorcycling variety) have a true deathwish out here.
#3 - It's important to define your "bubble" - where you can realistically get out and explore during the work week. There are so many things out here to do and they aren't FAR, but if you think it's easy to get to them you would be so wrong. The bubble for us has been 20-30 minutes of drive time and for San Pedro that puts us as far as Ranch Palos Verdes, Palos Verdes Estates, Torrance, or Long Beach at the most. Malibu, Santa Monica, DTLA, Hollywood, Laguna, Irvine... fuggettaboutit.. that's gonna be an easy 1 hr drive or more each way. Out of bubble - you need prep time to make it happen or plan it for the weekend, and account for traffic. So much time in the car!
#4 - Don't fret though... on every corner you will find a burger joint, an ice cream shop, and a donut shop.
#5 - We need to spend more time back at home on our backdoor area - pergola, firepit, some types of greenery and lighting, a hammock. The after hours hangout sessions outside of the house in a quaint backyard has been hard to beat.
#6 - You will smell a dead seal well before you see it.
#7 - We've never seen the actual end of so many freeways. In one day you could get to the "End of the freeway" sign for the 110, then later end the 10 and the 405 on your way up the coast. Is this where freeways come to die?
#8 - Folks here are super friendly and approachable, but if you meet them on the road, they won't hesitate to kill you and your entire family in cold blood.
#9 - But for real, we've had complete strangers strike up conversations much more easily it seems as we go about our day than expected, very genuine people. More authentic, or at least different, than at home in Colorado. It's like people will go out of their way, unprompted, to strike up conversation. Different even from what I recall from living in Tennessee.
#10 - On the other hand, there are some oddballs... we watched a guy in Malibu walk down the middle of a lane on PCH as he walked to the bus stop, unconcerned by traffic. When cars came to a halt behind him, they of course would honk at him to move to the shoulder. His response, of course, is to turn around flip them them off with both barrels.
#11 - On a different day in Malibu, we visited Escondido Falls - a #1 destination waterfall hike near L.A.. It was a fairly short stroll through a lush forest. A creek meandering alongside the trail. We get to the waterfall - it's super nice, great waterfall. Perfect spot for... you guessed it, posting up a tent right smack dab in front of it. Bro sat in his tent while people filtered in to get there Insta-perfect shots right in front of his tent. He decides to mosey out and take a splash in the waterfall, dipping his head in the fall and shaking his long locks like it's Maybelline. Then he returned, satisfied, to his private personal viewing location.
#12 - For our dietary restrictions, it's easier to find vegan than gluten-free. The food scene is remarkable - you'll find experiences here you'll never find back in Colorado. Back home, we can find good food experiences, but you have to seek it out. Here, you can stumble upon something new without a plan.
#13 - We're overstimulated... sights and sounds and smells. Working normal work weeks, while planning where to go tonight, this weekend, 6 months from now. Who can we see while we're here, who should we be coordinating with for 2 weeks from now? What do we need to fix now with the house for tenants back home? Did I just hear gunshots or fireworks? (narrator: it was gunshots). TAMALES! Hot TAMALES! .. coming from our back alley. Is that Christmas music? No it's an ice cream truck. Is there someone breaking through our front gate? No it's the electric company coming to check the meter at our AirBnB. Can we finally rest? No, time to take Copper and Bennett out to get some energy out. Who DDT'd my bank account?
#14 - Speaking of dog walks... no open spaces here. Walkability is nowhere near the same. If you want to go for a stretch, your options are limited and you'll have to get in the car (at least that's the case from our place in San Pedro). That has been a challenge for us and our standard routine.
#15 - Vanity plates are everywhere.
#16 - TV is overrated. We made it a goal to lean into "No TV", especially with our first AirBnB having no TV. We have monitors and laptops, but we've been intentional about fully experiencing where we are. Some days, especially towards the end of our first month, we've felt the nonstop schedule catching up with us, but resting in the backyard, reading, taking the dogs for a stroll, picking up the guitar... there's plenty else to do. It's easy to fall into the routine of TV but we hope to take this learning back with us.
#17 - It is "vibrant" here. We've enjoyed the fact that there are many different types of people here. And the city life has a different speed, it's louder, and there's just a lot going on all the time. There's colorful artwork and graffiti throughout the city (often very well done). But we've joked at times when things are also "vibrant" in less appealing ways. When overhearing the couples arguing, cars backfiring, fireworks(?) going off at 4 am, or when a neighbor's gutter is being replaced like 5 ft away while trying to work.
#18 - We miss our king bed. We have had better sleep.
#19 - It's actually been pretty cold here, at least in May. We've learned a lot about the "May gray", the marine layer that keeps the coast covered most of the mornings in May. The temperature can change quite quickly from overcast, cool, and windy, to very warm, sunny, and humid.
#20 - We miss the crispness of the Colorado morning air. There's something more refreshing about the air in Colorado. We miss the ease of getting out for an amazing hike, and to get out and not have to sit in an hour of traffic to get somewhere (at least generally speaking). Maybe it's possible here but much harder from San Pedro.
#21 - It's been awesome being close enough to some long-time friends I haven't been able to see in forever, and near Annie's family. Getting out to see people we know and getting to spend quality time is a great perk of this experience. There's less pressure than if we were just out on vacation for a week and trying to fit it in. It's much easier to meet up for a casual hike or bite and catch up!
#22 - We are still adapting to the mindset of traveling for vacation to traveling for a year. There's plenty of tension to take advantage of where we are and fit in all the things and to see all the people, but we know we have to build in some rest time. We know it. We will do that... we will, right?